Crud! I was hoping you would be checking in over the weekend.
Frenchy - could you maybe give BM a quick call and see if she could try something? BM - you mentioned Abby is grooming herself. If she is still you could try to put a small amount of food on her front paw. She will lick it off as cats hate having anything like that on them. I know it will be slow going but maybe if she does that enough she will try some off a plate after a bit.
I have been putting the vitamin gel the vet gave me for the new gang on their paws and they have been licking it off quickly. At least I know they are getting it.
Have you tried elevating her dishes? Maybe she can't breathe well with her head at that angle?
Just a couple of thoughts. You rock mf for not giving up on this girl.
You and the new bf (congrats btw
) are amazing!!