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Originally Posted by chico2
With my threesome,Chico is the one who often instigates a fight.
Vinnie and Rocky will be sleeping and Chico gets the zoomies,flying around in the house,passing R and V teasingly.
Then when they join in the zoomies,Chico will hiss and growl and complain to mom 
R will lick V and it ends up in a tussle,which I have to stop,before it gets serious.
Vinnie is very submissive to both,usually plunks down on his back..
Maybe Oksana has a smell Vlad is not familiar with  |
It's those big black kitties that are trouble makers.
No, I don't think it's the smell. They have been around each other since they were kittens. I'm thinking it's just that she doesn't want to play, and he does, so when he tries to instigate play, she freaks out trying to defend herself. He likely thinks he's playing, but she likely thinks he's attacking her. I wish there was a way to make her more assertive. If she did the same as Czari, Vlad would simply just walk away and find someone else to play with, but she doesn't.
I'm going to try looking for that Bach "self esteem" esscence. Maybe that will help her
I don't want to have to keep her in the bathroom alone daily for the next 10+ years.