hmmm.
Dogs parks to me are like day cares with all the PARENTS making the rules and regulations.

Everyone has a tendency to fend for themselves, and it can be quite dangerous. Most, not all, but most of the people that I know that frequent dog parks no NOTHING about dogs.
With some organization and education I think it could be a good idea, but in most cities these things are lacking.
Sounds like you wanted to help someone and got "sacked" for giving advice.
Sorry that happened to you, Poodletalk, your heart was in the right place.