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Dog bites baby
If a dog bites a baby's face and draws blood, what measures should be taken?
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Can you tell us exactly what the situation and circumstances were? How bad was the bite? Did it require stitches?
I"m sorry the baby was hurt. |
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Yes more details should be known
Is it your dog/ a friends dog/ a strange dog? Has the baby seen a doctor?
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Found this on another thread that you posted on
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How was the baby permitted alone or unsupervised to begin with? Was the dog visiting YOU or were you visiting THEM? Was the dog eating? What was the baby doing? Where were you?
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Regardless of the circumstances of the bite, what are the basic measures that need to be taken?
For example, taking the child to a doctor. What needs to be done with the dog to let it know that biting is inappropriate and in order to prevent recurrence? |
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The only way to prevent another bite is to never allow the dog and baby alone together, EVER. That should never be done in the first place. None of us know if that's what happened in the first place as you aren't providing much info. A muzzle shouldn't be used, because it shouldn't be neccessary. If the dog and baby are never alone in the same room together, this won't happen. Adult supervision is required with any child I'd say under the age of 12 and a dog of any size or breed.
The dog may have bitten for reasons unseen if no one was in the room at the time. Dogs almost always give warning before a bite takes place. Babies can't understand this, and that's why there really is nothing else you can do besides supervising all baby and dog time together. |
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The circumstances of the bite are VITAL in determing what action to take.
For example, if the dog walked up to the baby and just bit it, or lunged at it for no reason, that is one circumstance. If the baby was allowed to pull the dog's ears, climb on it, poke it's eyes, or crawl up and stick it's face in the dog's food bowl, that's quite a different story. In order to prevent this from happening again you need to look at why it happened. |
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The dog and the baby were both at someone else's home. The dog was sitting with it's owner, not eating. I was not in the room at the time so I'm not sure what the baby did. The other parent was watching the baby. I am trying to get a good idea of what is fair to the dog regardless of any stupidity in the actions of the people who were watching the event. What is a "normal" reaction to such an incident? Last edited by Yoho; August 12th, 2005 at 11:31 AM. |
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I am awfully sorry your baby was bit but in order to react to the bite you need to know why it happened in order to prevent a repeat. For example if the dog was in pain they may react with a bite. As I mentioned before, no aggression is acceptable but in order to deal with it appropriately it helps to know the circumstances of why it happened in the first place. Seeing as you were not in the room I would try to find out from those who were. Look for details, not opinions.
Last edited by StaceyB; August 12th, 2005 at 11:31 AM. |
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IMO, there is no "normal" reaction to a dog biting your child. Being upset is normal, and being afraid to leave the baby in the same house with the dog is normal. A muzzle on the dog when the baby's around may just make it more resentful to the baby. The dog's interaction with the baby must be closely watched and at the first sign of any possible harm by either the baby to the dog, or the dog to the baby, (eg. growling, teeth bearing, snarling, etc.) it must be corrected. The baby must learn not to bother the dog or try and get it's toys, food, etc. The dog must realize that the baby is not a threat, and that he/she/ needs to respect the baby. This can be done by saying the dogs name firmly, and following with a firm no. If it happens again, remove the dog from the situation and correct with either a time out for the dog, or keep the dog on leash around the waist. I have found these methods effective when it comes to dettering my dogs from other unwanted behaviours. Being 8 months pregnant myself, I can only hope these methods continue to work for stopping my dogs from bothering, or even potentially hurting my baby.
ETA: Also, don't ignore the dog when the baby's around. Make sure the dog is still getting enough attention and love so they will associate the baby with positive feelings, not negative feelings. you don't want the dog thinking, "Oh, when the baby's here I'm not important enough to pet or give a treat to." Last edited by heeler's rock!; August 12th, 2005 at 11:36 AM. |
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general rules?
Okay, I am looking for some guidance. I did not grow up with dogs and find them scary. I don't want my children to learn to fear dogs. Judging from responses and the tone here I get the following idea. Please tell me if this seems right.
A small child should be in a parent's arms if a dog is present. A larger child up to the age of 12 should be holding hands with the parent if a dog is present. When children are old enough to understand, they should be taught proper behaviour with dogs. Would this be enough to prevent a bite? |
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In the second situation, a dog may react reflexively with a snap to the sudden pain of having an ear pulled hard, or a finger poked in it's eye. It may not have meant to bite at all. We too might strike out if someone came up behind us and yanked our hair. Since you don't know what happened, except that baby and dog were in the same room, it's not possible to answer your question. What to do about it hinges TOTALLY on why and how it happened. Here's a very good site about dogs and kids. http://www.wonderpuppy.net/canwehelp/kids.htm Last edited by Lucky Rescue; August 12th, 2005 at 11:45 AM. |
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I can say from experience that one of my mom's dogs tried to bite my son when he was a newborn. I say tried because he didn't get the job done. My son was in my arms, the dog sniffed his back and then tried to nibble with his front teeth. The dog actually nibbled the back of my hand and not my child. If I had left my child laying on the floor or on a couch, he would've gotten bit. I don't know if the dog was jealous or if he just liked the material of my son's sleeper (the dog liked to rub his teeth on terry cloth). Regardless, the dog was told no in a firm voice. When my son was older, he constantly harrassed this dog - even though he was repeatedly told to leave the dog alone. He got nipped many times - the dog got scolded, and so did the boy. Did I ever demand that my mom put the dog down because he couldn't be trusted with a child - no - the bites were the result of a child purposefully causing the dog pain. You have to look at the circumstances surrounding the bite. You can't expect a dog not to react if a child is hurting it and you can't expect a child to not hurt a dog if they haven't been taught that or are too young to understand it - hence the supervision. I'm sorry that your child was bitten and I hope that the baby is ok.
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I'm really sorry your baby was bitten. The first thing to do, and I think you already know this, would be to get the baby to a doctor. I know of one child who wasn't bitten, but merely scratched by the dog's tooth when it gave a "warning snap" (the child was doing something the dog didn't like, and the dog was letting him know). The scratch quickly became infected. On its own, the scratch would not have required much care. But with the infection, they had to open it up to clean it, requiring stiches afterwards to help it heal. Now this child has a permanent scar on his face, where it could have been avoided if the wound had been tended to properly in the first place.
As for what to do about the dog, I'll leave that up to the experts who've replied so far. I do want to commend you, though, for taking time to assess the situation calmly instead of reacting out of emotion (a difficult task for a mom with a wounded child, I know!), and for not wanting to pass along your fear of dogs to your children. This, alone, will probably prevent all sorts of future bites for your children.
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I can't imagine growing up without dogs. I commend you for trying to work through your fears. It must be very hard.
Even small children can understand "be nice to the doggy" and show them how to pet nicely with an open hand. If your child pulls a dogs ear, tail, pokes eyes, etc., tell the child no - just as you would if your child was reaching for a hot stove - you would stop them before they get hurt. Training the dog depends on the dog itself. The methods would be different for an older dog vs a puppy. If the dog is old, and is aggressive towards kids, it would be better to keep small children away. If the dog was never socialized properly or has never been around kids, they may be afraid of the child and react from fear. I wouldn't say that a child needs to be in an adults arms or even holding hands. Dogs will give that warning - someone in the room should've been paying attention to how the dog was reacting to the child and what interaction was going on there. My newfs love, love, love little kids, babies, toddlers, whatever. I know that they won't bite but still they are not ever unsupervised with a child. My worst fear is that they will smother the poor kid with kisses! And by supervision I mean actually watching the dog - not just being in the same room. The biggest thing I see with parents who are afraid of dogs is that they expect all dogs to attack them and/or their kids and they transmit that fear to their kids. Our newfs go to work with my hubby everyday - in a retail business. Most people love them and want to pet them. Sometimes people come in and totally freak out upon seeing the dogs (they are fairly large ). Of course, when they start screaming - the dogs want to know what is wrong and will try to get closer to the person screaming, which makes the person scream even louder, which makes the dogs nervous......If you stay calm and don't act like there is anything to fear from a dog - your child will stay calm as well.
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I'm not trying to offend you I was trying to get more information about how the bite occurred.
Some bites are like knee jerk reactions. Say someone came up behind you and grabbed you by the throat, your initial reaction is to protect yourself and you may just elbow them or kick or something in defense. There is nothing different then that with a dog. I'll give you an example, a dog I had who since has passed away bit my father terribly on the leg one day, big bite mark and drew blood, big puncture. Sounds awful doesn't it! But what I didn't say is.... my dog was seated underneath the patio table sleeping, my dad walked over not knowing the dog was under there and being 250 lbs stepped on the dogs leg. He awoke and reacted! You have provided 'some' information about the situation but more is really needed for us to offer additional advise. Is this dog old/sick/on medication? What happened just before the bite? Was the dog sleeping/startled? Things like that? You say for example being poked in the eye is this what happened?
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I also agree that the situation needs to be assesed on an individual basis. Not all dog bites happen the same way, so it is important to understand the circumstances surrounding it. I'd also like to commend you on not wanting your children to grow up afraid of dogs. That's a really great thing for you to do for your kids, regardless of your personal feelings towards dogs! |
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I will probably hear about this but here it goes:
First you should take your child to the doctor to make sure there is no infection. Depending on where you live the bite will probably be reported to the local health department. Proof of rabies vaccination will be required. Without proof the child may have to undergo rabies shots. Since this dog is not in your home it is not an immediate threat. I would however avoid bringing your baby into the same room as this dog and don't allow the relatives to bring the dog to your house. Your baby must be your first concern. Children move quickly, make lots of noise and no matter how many times you tell them something they do forget. Personally if this were my dog I would not allow it to be around the baby. It would be put in a room while the baby visited because it could not be trusted. I love my dogs but would not take a chance of a future bite. You say you don't want your children to be afraid of dogs. This is not the dog to teach your children with. He obviously has a problem with children and is uncomfortable with them. Find someone who has a dog that loves kids and teach your children with this dog. |
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good post copperbelle
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In this case, the dog is about 6 years old, has some dietary illness but is fairly healthy. The dog was not sleeping but just sitting (as far as I know). I was told by the people present that the dog was aware of the baby and the baby reached out and poked it's eye but I'm not sure how accurate that is since the baby is a very gentle "poker" but loves to pull hair hard. I don't know any more details. I don't even know if there was a warning growl. The owner had warned before to be careful with the kids around the dog. I am not trying to lay blame on the dog, the owner, or the parent. I am trying to figure out what is a reasonable expectation for me to have in terms of how to treat the dog and how to avoid recurrence. Some parents would be asking the dog to be put down. I don't want that. I want to find an alternative that will really work and be fair to everybody including the dog. I appreciate all the responses I've had so far. |
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You say I should keep the baby and the dog apart all the time. What about my 4 year old? Should I also keep them separated? |
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Again not trying to frustrate you but every type of provocation is different. See the child provoking the dog vs how my dad provoked the dog.
Someone should have stopped the baby before the opportunity came to poke the dog in the eye PERIOD. Having said that, some dogs are more apt to turn and run and hide. Other dogs may have a history of little hands abusing them or abuse by others. Some breeds are prone to be a little more bitey that way then others. My little terrier for example that bit my dad quite gentle and harmless dog except this just caused him to react. His personality with kids, if they bothered him he tried to get away from them and I always directly supervise. I have a collie now and she is very gentle, if anyone hit her poked her she'd just look stunned and not know what happened LOL I think since this dog has some issues around being around children it's probably because it can't figure out the kids intentions...children are unpredictable and thus the dog figured right and got a poke in the eye. The dogs owners and childs parents are to blame for not supervising this situation closer. I would say don't let the children approach the dog period. If the dog wants to go to them, it will on it's own terms. My thoughts are the dog probably doesn't want anything to do with the kids? If this is the case then separate them. Where did they get the dog from have they had it since a puppy or did they adopt it from a rescue/shelter? How did the owners react towards the dog when this happened? On a secondary note did the doctor fill out the required information and inform public health?
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Keep any and all children away from this dog. It obviously does not have a high tolerance for children so why tempt the issue. I have two toddlers and this dog would not be allowed near either one of them. If you visit, ask them to put the dog in another room. If they won't do that, then don't visit. Sounds harsh but your baby could have been seriously scarred for life or required plastic surgery. Dog bites are nothing to mess around with.
I don't blame the dog for this but rather the lack of adults knowledge about toddlers and dogs. You can't punish a dog for what it took as an attack, no matter how light the poke. I'm sure the dog would be much happier in a quiet room when there's a gang of people over.
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I would not want to put the child or the dog in jeopardy! |
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This was an unfortunate incident, and neither dog nor child is to blame. Some dogs are uneasy around little kids, who scream, grab, poke and act erratically, and they may become defensive. I would just keep the child away from the dog, for the safety of both. No dog should be expected to tolerate abuse, no matter how innocently the abuse is done. |
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I think it is extremely unfair to blame the dog in this situation. I don't think you should blame the child either. This child is too young to understand that poking and grabbing are a no-no. I believe that the adults, who knew the dog was uncomfortable, are to blame. Dog bites should be prevented.
Please keep your child away from this dog. I think it is great that you want your children to grow up without fearing dogs, but a more trustworthy dog should be used. The children should also learn how to behave around dogs so as to not get bitten. |
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Do you think it is reasonable to expect the owner to keep the dog away from them too or warn the children's parents as the need arises? If a muzzle is not warranted in public (as I have gathered from various responses), should the leash be of a specific type? This dog is used to a leash that is variable length and controlled by a pressure button. Is that sufficient for a dog that has bitten? I'm thinking of how to treat the dog when it is out for a walk where strange children might be loose. |
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This dog has bitten provoked, so if it's out walking on a leash, if a child approaches, the owner should just say "please don't touch the dog, he really isn't friendly" and leave it at that. Obviously the dog should not be put in situations where a bunch of kids are running around half hazard. It's not fair to the dog. People need to control their children as well.
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