Please help

[sittler107]

I have two Jack's and a labradoodle. The doodle is the latest addition, has been a year now. The jack's are 3yrs.
My female jack has always had a nervous bladder but now it's every day, 3-4 times a day. Any situation, happy, scared, play, in response to command.
If you stand over her, if the cat swings at her, a dog wants to play.
No infection. If we just had her, then it would be easy to handle avoiding situations, but with 2 other dogs, two cats, two kids..... it's hard to get specific, dedicated one on one. What would best approach be to dealing with this situation?
Note: she always wants to be with us (family members) but we don't want her on the bed, the sofa, chairs..... because of the good possibility of her having an accident.

[Lucky Rescue]

Here are a bunch of links on handling submissive/excitement urination. Hope they help!
HERE