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OK!! Gotta put on my cheery face no reason to be sad now
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Funny, Molly won't look at EVO now, though it was one of her favs before diagnosis. Right now Tripet is the only one she considers every once in a while. I learned that, like people, they associate foods with not feeling good.. so if she ate something and felt bad she won't want to eat it again. I also feed her in different bowl, in different places, etc. so she doesn't associate things that way either.
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I had to put the herbs and other supplements in the food. It was all powdered. I guess we could have tried to get those gel things but I somehow don't think I would have wanted to stress him by shoving capsules down his throat every day. At any rate, even though I couldn't guarantee he'd get a full dose every day, it seemed the least invasive way of giving the stuff to him.
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I just had another thought. I didn't try this, but I suppose you could give her small amounts of food periodically, making it seem like treats. Who knows - tiny amounts might not trigger the nausea.
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Let her eat what ever she wants to. Eating is afterall, one a dogs greatest pleasures as is playing and their family. Indulge her. She will only be happy and so will you...knowing you gave your all for her comfort in this time when she needs her family the most. After seeing so many others like this, I do believe she knows too. I have seen it on their faces when the owners and dogs come into the office. Putting on your "happy face" in front of her will be a great relief to her. I saw only grief from their eyes while the doc and owner discussed the situation. It's like they were wishing they were not attached by a leash and wanting to bolt out of the room. They know. They also understand more of the human language then they are given credit for. Dogs just don't pick up on emotions and body language...they do understand. I communicated no different with Ciara then I did a human being either stranger or well known. I think she's more worried about you and her loved ones right now. Liverwurst and bologna also teases the taste buds. And hot dogs (just round bologna but still fun for pups) If she is still being funky with the eating, ask your vet about a Winstrol V injection and B vitamin injections. They really help alot and are cheap. She would feel better too.
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Time for an update
I didn't want to let this tread go... there has been so much great info offered to me and if nothing else I can hope it will help someone in the future who is facing this terrible disease.
It will be two months on Monday since Mollys diagnosis with Hemangiosarcoma, Monday will also likely be yet another day when I face the decision of whether it is time to end the fight. We have had good times and bad in the last two months... over Christmas holidays we enjoyed every moment we had together and had lots of adventures i'll treasure forever. I was back looking at pictures today... I remember thinking at the time how much of her life was already lost, now I can't believe how much life she had in her then. She is fading away. Over time she is getting weaker and thinner. Dec 9th she weight 58lbs, down from 68lbs in September... on Tuesday she only was weighing 49lbs, shocking. Sigh, she literally is disappearing. Happily, she still enjoys her toys, visiting with friends and is still able to get around without trouble. One of the hardest things I have found to deal with is the extreme ups and downs she's had. Many a night i have imagined that she wouldn't survive the night, only to find her bouncy and full of life the next morning. Each time I'm sure it is the end, she rallies better than ever. The good times are getting less, the bad worse... I still hold on with hope we might enjoy a few more treasured moments together. I know the end is near... I pray happy times are our final ones. I'm sorry this is a rather sad testament to such a happy dog. I just thought it best to be honest. A picture of my girl... Jan 31st.
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Magnolia (aka Nolie) - 6 yrs old, adopted May 3, 2009 - mixed breed monster mutt R.I.P. Chloe - my first Golden girl - we said goodbye but you will always be here (1994-2007 adopted April 2000) R.I.P. Molly - my Golden girl, who's causing havoc over the bridge now - (1999-2009 adopted May 2007) and love for my "lost ones" - Misery, Clover & the girls (chickens) |
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I love the picture .
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Her whole life with you is a loving memory for both of you, otter. How wonderful that you've given her such a precious gift--your love, and the opportunity to return it.
The 'letting go' part is always the hardest, watching them decline and knowing their time is precious because it's short :sad:, but the sadness can't destroy the happy memories you've built together. Your shared love is what will tie you together for eternity and carry you through. I hope you get at least another weekend of good days Give the Magnificent Molly a kiss from hazel, okay?
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I was wondering how Molly was doing. Good to hear she's at least still getting around and playing with her toys. She does indeed look happy in that picture. She's so lucky to have you.
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Aww sweet Molly
The decision is always so hard, we are always thinking what if and if only... Take heart knowing Molly knows how much you love her & she loves you just as much I for a happy weekend for you & Molly .
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Molly is your soul mate and definitely knows how much you love her.
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I will be thinking of you and Molly...
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Memories of love, and the greatness of life itself, survive everything, even the most tragic of circumstances.
All my warmest wishes to both you and Molly, Otter .
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Oh Otter---what a sweet girl! Golden's are so special. We just lost our 14 Y.O Golden Angel a month ago. She had cancer all throughout. On her last day, my children, husband and I spent the entire day with her. As much as we tried to be normal--it was very difficult.
As tought as it sounds, you have to weight in the quality of life and set aside human selfishness. Make every moment count with you, your family and Molly. Thoughts and prayers are out to you during this difficult time.
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Nothing to add...... just
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Thinking of you and Molly, Otter.
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What a wonderful picture if Molly so happy looking and photogenic,she always takes good pics.for the both of you.
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Otter,I have not said much,but have read everything,Mollys beautiful face brings me to tears,tears for the incredibly difficult time that is ahead for you and your family
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Your Molly is so beautiful. I have a suspicion that this is what took away our Golden, Zeus at 11 1/2. He was on prescription food for kidney disease and stopped eating it. Since it had helped him so much I was reluctant to feed him anything else and our vet didn't find anything wrong with him. All his blood was fine and he couldn't feel any tumour. He seemed to be feeling fine but he got weaker quite quickly (he didn't lose any weight though and that is what convinced me he had a tumour). One Sunday afternoon he just lay down and couldn't get up. It was the first time I had felt he was in pain. Monday morning we phoned the vet and he was going to meet us at our house at 11 a.m. to put him to sleep. At 10:55 a.m. Zeus lifted his head, looked in my eyes, put his head in my hands and breathed his last breath. Zeus was always a very stubborn dog for a Retriever and I think that lasted until the end. He wanted to go on his terms and he did. In the end the vet said he had probably had a very fast growing tumour that burst. |
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Molly and the Family are still in my prayers.
Always.
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Just wanted to send you and Molly some and will keep you in my and thoughts.
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Cat maid to: Rose semi feral, a cpietra rescue, female tabby (approx 13 yrs) Jasper RIP (2001-2018) Sweet Pea RIP (2004?-2014) Puddles RIP (1996-2014) Snowball RIP (1991-2005) In a cat's eye, all things belong to cats.-English Proverb “While we are free to choose our actions, we are not free to choose the consequences of our actions.” Stephen R. Covey |
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We're thinking about you guys.
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Owned by: Solomon - black DSH - king of kitchen raids (11) Gracie - Mutterooski X - scary smart (9) Jaida - GSD - tripod trainwreck and gentle soul (4) Heidi - mugsly Boston Terrier X - she is in BIG trouble!!! (3) Audrey - torbie - sweet as pie (11 months) Patrick - blue - a little turd (but we like him anyways) (6 months) __________ Boo, our Matriarch (August 1 1992 - March 29 2011) Riley and Molly |
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Tabitha April 10, 1995 - August 23, 2013 Bomber April 10, 1995 - July 12, 2010 Winston Nov 15, 1999 - September 15, 2011 Sophie Aug 30, 2011 "UNTIL ONE HAS LOVED AN ANIMAL, PART OF THEIR SOUL REMAINS UNAWAKENED" He is your friend, your partner, your defender, your dog. You are his life, his love, his leader. He will be yours, faithful and true, to the last beat of his heart. You owe it to him to be worthy of such devotion. -Unknown |
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for you and Molly.
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I've been asked to post this for otter, she has a 4pm appt for molly to have her put to sleep, she has been declining very rapidly and Otter feels its time. Please keep her in your thoughts, it's a 3hr drive for her one way and she will be getting freezing rain at some point. Otter will post on here later if possible.
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Otter, you're an amazing dog-mom. Molly's a lucky, lucky gal to be so cherished.
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Owned by: Solomon - black DSH - king of kitchen raids (11) Gracie - Mutterooski X - scary smart (9) Jaida - GSD - tripod trainwreck and gentle soul (4) Heidi - mugsly Boston Terrier X - she is in BIG trouble!!! (3) Audrey - torbie - sweet as pie (11 months) Patrick - blue - a little turd (but we like him anyways) (6 months) __________ Boo, our Matriarch (August 1 1992 - March 29 2011) Riley and Molly |
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Thanks for letting us know, Aslan.
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What a sad day on pets..
it was I believe 2 months today she was diagnosed.. I dont think Molly was just Otters Golden girl but also a part each of us.. |
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not much to say either you are in my thoughts and prayers
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