"Snob Park"

[Catt31]

Ohhh man, what a joke this place is (not THIS place, but the park!!!)

We recently moved from an area where we were close to 5 different off leash parks along the river to a place where there are none - well with the exception of Snob Park! It is a fenced in field with a few trees but not much else. Big culture shock for Brick!!

I went yesterday morning to walk Brick and there were a bunch of dogs there and I got really excited cuz I knew he would have some friends to play with. Well, we got closer, and the dogs all came over and sniffed and played for a bit, then the owners started calling their dogs back, and walking the other way. I called Brick and he came to me, and we started walking. The other dogs weren't listening to their owners so they followed us, so I stopped to let the owners get control of their dogs. They came over and were talking amongst themselves (there were about 5 or 6 adults there, and about 8 or 9 dogs), didn't say a WORD to me!!! I tried several times to start up a conversation with several of the people and they IGNORED me!!! I couldn't believe it!!! The one guy was throwing the Kong for Brick, and so I thought maybe he'd talk to me...nope!!! It was an EXCLUSIVE little dog walking clique!!! OMG, I nearly crapped my pants!!! NEVER EVER EVER have I ever seen such UNFRIENDLY dog owners!! :sad:

I went again today, and the SAME group of people were there. I watched them as we pulled up and got out of the car, and they started WALKING THE OTHER WAY!!!! I nearly died, I felt so crappy!!! So Brick and I stayed in the other end of the field and played ball, but he didn't get to play with the other dogs....that is so unfair!!! He has NEVER been mean to the other dogs, or started a fight, it makes NO sense.....except for the fact that they are SNOBS and don't like newcomers to their field!! I felt so unwanted and so unwelcome, it was horrible!!

Tim took Brick there on Monday night and he met a couple people there, that were semi-friendly. Brick was playing with his ball, Tim made a comment to the guy that Brick likes his ball more than playing with other dogs, and the guy said "Then he should go play with his ball".....WTF??? How rude!!!!! We think it's one of the same guys that were there the last 2 days.

ARGHHH!! I'm sooo mad!!! How rude and how harmful to Brick's self esteem (not to mention mine!! ) LOL Anyways, just needed to vent!!!

[happycats]

Oh cat31, , I feel so horrible for you and Brick, but I know exactly how you feel, the same thing happened to me (well almost, it was with my son though).
We went to a local play centre for the first time, and all the other mothers completely ignored me and my son, I tried a few times to start a conversation, and they continued to ignore me. The worst thing was one of the kids (they were all aged between 2 and 4) got a box of Timbits from his mom, and gave them to everyone else except my son, and when my son asked to have one the kid said "no way" and the mother did nothing!!
We left, with our heads hung low, I felt so horrible for my son.

[glasslass]

Look at it this way, people like that aren't worth knowing! Their loss, not yours! Hard to explain that to Brick though! :sad:

[twinmommy]

poor you guys!!
Catt31--poor Brick, that's soo strange usually dog owners are soo nice, I guess not all.... There's cliques everywhere I guess...
Happycats : When I hear things like this, I just want to curl my babies up in my arms and shut out the whole world!!! God!! That's sooo mean!! Kids can be such little %^$^ers sometimes!! And when you see the parents you no longer ask why, right?

mean mean mean mean people!!! ugh!!

thank god we have this site, right guys?

[TobsterMom]

We don't have a dog park around here, so our usual spot is the beach, we uasually go in the evenings, when the swimmers have gone home (summertime of course). Well last summer, we would go, and usually meet the same 3 or 4 other dog owners, it was really nice, our dogs would play and swim, and we would chat. One day there was a family that we didn't recognize, they had a cute little dog on a leash. Toby went over to make friends, and the man that had the dog was soooo rude. He pretty much told us that we were ignorant for not keeping our dog on a leash. We called Toby and clipped him on his leash, until the people left. I was so upset that someone could be so rude, and his poor dog was just DYING to run and play with Toby.

I was worried that he would phone someone about us being there, as technically it's not a dog park. It is a public place though, and there are no signs saying no dogs, so I doubt there is anything they can do. People like this ruin it for responsible loving owners with well socialized animals!

We never saw them again, just the regulars after that, but are more than happy to see new people come out to play....it's all part of the fun of being pet owners! I think you need to find a new hang out with Brick, these guys are morons!

[meowzart]

oh my gosh! unbelieveable - I'm so sorry for you. We have an off leash park here and it's so cool when you go because you stop and chat with people that you would never probably chat with other wise - I mean we're in our 40's - pretty conservative middle class with kids yada yada but think nothing of chatting with young guys with body piercings and tattoos and assorted other 'cultural' differences. And you know what?? They're great people!

[SarahLynn123]

Originally Posted by Catt31

Ohhh man, what a joke this place is (not THIS place, but the park!!!)

We recently moved from an area where we were close to 5 different off leash parks along the river to a place where there are none - well with the exception of Snob Park! It is a fenced in field with a few trees but not much else. Big culture shock for Brick!!

I went yesterday morning to walk Brick and there were a bunch of dogs there and I got really excited cuz I knew he would have some friends to play with. Well, we got closer, and the dogs all came over and sniffed and played for a bit, then the owners started calling their dogs back, and walking the other way. I called Brick and he came to me, and we started walking. The other dogs weren't listening to their owners so they followed us, so I stopped to let the owners get control of their dogs. They came over and were talking amongst themselves (there were about 5 or 6 adults there, and about 8 or 9 dogs), didn't say a WORD to me!!! I tried several times to start up a conversation with several of the people and they IGNORED me!!! I couldn't believe it!!! The one guy was throwing the Kong for Brick, and so I thought maybe he'd talk to me...nope!!! It was an EXCLUSIVE little dog walking clique!!! OMG, I nearly crapped my pants!!! NEVER EVER EVER have I ever seen such UNFRIENDLY dog owners!! :sad:

I went again today, and the SAME group of people were there. I watched them as we pulled up and got out of the car, and they started WALKING THE OTHER WAY!!!! I nearly died, I felt so crappy!!! So Brick and I stayed in the other end of the field and played ball, but he didn't get to play with the other dogs....that is so unfair!!! He has NEVER been mean to the other dogs, or started a fight, it makes NO sense.....except for the fact that they are SNOBS and don't like newcomers to their field!! I felt so unwanted and so unwelcome, it was horrible!!

Tim took Brick there on Monday night and he met a couple people there, that were semi-friendly. Brick was playing with his ball, Tim made a comment to the guy that Brick likes his ball more than playing with other dogs, and the guy said "Then he should go play with his ball".....WTF??? How rude!!!!! We think it's one of the same guys that were there the last 2 days.

ARGHHH!! I'm sooo mad!!! How rude and how harmful to Brick's self esteem (not to mention mine!! ) LOL Anyways, just needed to vent!!!

Ah yes, not much has changed there! Belle and I used to got there, now only when its really really cold out. We go for a quick 15min run and head for home. We dont have a membership to this prestigous dog walking club either! Its the same people everyday. We now drive 10mins to Nose Hill park on Saturdays, its huge!! Not alot of dogs though, about 6-10 on a good day, but its so big you hardly run into them, good place to bring a ball though and the people are great! Its Southland Park on Sundays, lots more dogs for Belle to meet. (and see her boyfriend!) When its stays lighter out later in the day (spring summer) we will probably go after supper for a bit during week days, we can all meet up and start our own group!!!!

[Shamrock]

How sad that some people are so rude and thoughtless! Its disheartening, really, the way people can act.
I've encountered similiar, but luckily not too often.
One couple with three tiny dogs appeared to deliberately go "the other way" when they saw me approaching in a park. When they saw I was also going that way,and now was behind them, they picked up the pace. I thought they might break into a run at any moment. I was flabbergasted I wondered if I should call out to them.. "Hey! I'm walking my dog.. not stalking you! Couldnt figure out why they wrere acting so weird - felt really insulted though. :sad:

And Happycats - shame on that mother for allowing her son to exclude yours. Unless she didnt know... that is just inexcusable.

I also find dog people generally so friendly, its great to chat with people from all walks off life. Before I had Percy, I walked an hour every single day after work but was petless and alone. People would smile, nod, but rarely spoke to me I always used to see the "dog groups" chatting.
Then I got a fantastic idea... why dont I get animal companion of my very own?
Once I adopted my little guy from the SPCA... what a difference! It's one of the great things about our outings that I look forward to now.

[Luvmypit]

This wasn't a dog park but I had capone on a leash in a hydro like field (never off leash) this lady had a little white dog and as soon as she saw me just started frantically started running to her dog screaming cocoa cocoa as if the dog was just about to be hit by a car. Now get this. The dog was in their backyard behind a FENCE. And still my dog was a threat to her. The husband was peering out the sliding door as his wife frantically saved their dog from my pit that didnt even notice the damn thing untill the lady started screaming. TO TOP IT ALL OFF. Capone got all excited, Im on ice. I fall. Bruised my butt and got up looked at this lady and gave her the worse look. I would say it was a god your stupid look. This is the same lady that scoops her dog up when Im about 5 KM down the road and not even planning to cross her path. I know a little off topic but i just had to throw that in somewhere. She also gives me bad looks. I swear next time shes getting a mouthful. Shamrock, Atleast I knew why this lady was acting the way she was I am not sure though why two people with three dogs would start to pick up pace in a bid to rid themselves of a stranger. How funny would have been for you to flail your arms in the air and run full throttle towards them. Ha... I can see it now.

[pitbulliest]

This is one of the reasons I hate dog parks..lol but I won't start on that...

I used to take messina to one of the offleash parks we have nearby when she was smaller..than stopped taking her as she began to mature..for safety reasons for my dog and other dogs..but anywho..the people there were such Azzholes...it was unbelievable..I remember coming home twice and crying...this one old granny came up to me and told me that pitbulls don't belong in dog parks (which I agreed, but Messina was still a youngun heh), and that they shouldn't be around PUBLIC at all...that they shouldn't exist..basically telling me my dog's breed should be wiped out because SHE didn't like them..and the worst part was that she claimed to have worked in an animal shelter nearby..I nearly crapped myself silly...

I had a few other similar incidents...where my dog was also attacked by other people's dogs..and so on..the people were terrible..there were only about 4 or 5 that I really got along with compared to the 80 or so that were members of the park...it was sick..so I stopped going...now I just find parks useless...lol and I'm a much happier individual since I stopped going...

[mastifflover]

I agree with you if I go to an offleash it is usually with another dog so Buddy can play because my mastiff is also a dog that according to the oh so wise people at the park that is vicious and will attack other dogs. Yeah right. Buddy will run away from a dog who growls or tries to be aggressive with him. These are the people who have no control over there dogs and I guess figure everyone has poorly trained dogs like theres. I do take him to High Park but we mostly just walk the trails and he can get in a bit of running and some of the other big dogs owners also prefer the trails so he does get to play with some dogs.

[Gazoo]

Catt31 where exactly is Snob Park...it sounds familiar to an experience I had!!