Chico - I feel your pain. I talk to people about cats all the time at work. I get to see what they buy. Dogs too. I have to be careful or I will lose it some day.
Sometimes it is so hard not to tell people they are idiots for doing what they do. I had a woman tell me last week that her daughter had her two cats declawed but they are perfectly happy and healthy. I said maybe they are now but they sure weren't when they had the surgury. Then I asked how she would like her fingers cut off at the knuckle. I got the weirdest look. I told her that's what declawing a cat is. She didn't believe me.
What can you do? Nothing. The
obviously knows how to look after his pets well. Look at the wonderful job he does with Fate.
Big
to you for caring.