Yes,you are all right.
I know he cares for her and probably does not want to lose her,but we all feel that way about our animals,we have to do whats right,spending money on her though is definetly an issue.
He wrote me an e-mail,saying she's doing better,a friend of his told him,taking her to the vet would put her in to shock at her age.
He says he went to the drugstore got some diuretics(sp?)for humans to give her
I wrote him back,even if she's not dying,only a vet can determine how sick she really is.
I am out of it now,it's up to him,I've had my say....:sad: