I will call her this afternoon, Vegeta.
He wasn't around for a day or so, but this morning the kibble dish is empty..completely. Usually with a stray I try to time feedings with the morning so I get to interact with the kitty, but he has his own schedule, that is for sure.
I would be thrilled if your grandmother could take the kitty regardless...I have a houseful right now, so me keeping him is always in my mind, but if he could have a loving home...so much better.
Your grandmother's house is not that far from mine, especially considering kitties dont use the roadways....so maybe together we can have a happy ending all around!