hehe chico2 its tom
the sand ceremony is like a united candle. instead of using two candles to light one big one we use two bottles of sand and pour it into another bottle combing our different personalities together. My JP told me about it and i really wanted to do it.
thanks everyone for the lovely comments. it turned out so well. i was really happy. even though my husband was speechless most of the day. he kept telling me i looked "good." i was like huh good only good.
i think he was just all overwhelmed