We adopted a young (4mo) male cat from the SPCA a month ago. They warned us fairly that he has anxiety and would need help learning to socialize. We have been working hard, building trust and he is coming around.
A week ago I smelled something funky on my way into bed. My husband and it began investigating, thinking maybe one of our two cats had some faeces stuck to him. Checked older cat: clean. Husband picked up little cat and he was terrified. Husband held him while I tried to soothe him and check him and he started to urinate on the floor

. Afterwards we finally found a well hidden pile of faeces in the very back of the closet.
A couple days later i sat on the bed to discover a wet spot beside me. Husband said the kitten had been sitting there earlier when he laid down and figured the cat peed out of fear. Couple days later I pick up laundry to discover kitten peed on husbands underwear.
This is the ONLY thing my cat-loving husband will not bear. Help!