i felt the same way.... my cat hid under my bed and didn't pee for 2 days it scared me to death. i was like hes not right for me but i suck with him and now hes the smartest and best cat ever. so just keep on trucken and give this kitty a chance. and down the road when u and her are ready u can get her a partner but till then stay clam and dont rush it
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someone whos been though it