I went though that before
My family got a second cat after having our first cat for about 7 years, she hated the new kitten, and back in those days, she could have and would have torn the poor little thing apart (she's mellowed in her old age, she's like 16 now), what we did was kept the kitten in a separate room with the door closed, put everything it needed in there, visited and such, and it let our cat get used to the kitten without being able to do anything to it, once our older cat calmed down, we let the kitten out and they grudgingly got along.
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