Toby looks good in the garden.
We have a native gaura here--biennial gaura. It's not nearly as showy as yours--the flowers are dinky--but it looks very similar. Unfortunately, I don't have any good pics of it...
"We are--each of us--dying; it's how we live in the meantime that makes the difference."
"It's not what you gather, but what you scatter that tells what kind of life you have lived!"
"Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle."