Originally Posted by Winston
Thanks guys! 14+ I found this part of the article helpful,,,,
Cats are resilient animals. If given time to grieve, they will return to some of their old rituals, develop new rituals, and once again regain the contentment that they previously enjoyed.
Lp thank you so much for the hug!
BM thank you so much fo letting me hear your story!!!!!. Animals are such amazing creatures arent they!
Floppydog I dont know if Tabitha is willing to accept another mate? She ruled the roost so to speak here...and maybe at another time because emotionally it would not be fare to a new kitty if I am still not good with everything. A bit selfish perhaps but not feeling like I could handle it yet.
Winston - It is not selfish of you at all not to want to bring in another cat/kitten at the moment. You have been through a traumatic experience. One we all know too well. When I was typing out my response yesterday I did it with tears streaming. It is still so painful to talk about Brownie. I'm hoping soon I start remembering more good memories than I do the ending ones. Bomber was with you for a long time. It will take a while to recoup. Take your time. When it is right you will know.
Tabitha will eventually settle on her routine. It will take her time too.