Welcome to the board, michmonster!
Are you at all surprised that the new family is settling in so fast, 14+?
Sounds like things are going beautifully!!!
"We are--each of us--dying; it's how we live in the meantime that makes the difference."
"It's not what you gather, but what you scatter that tells what kind of life you have lived!"
"Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle."