dollface, you said:
"What kind of pet owner would I be if I rehomed a problem cat in order to have a new problem free cat? Not gonna happen."
Sometimes, this kind of a solution works, particularly if Gizzy went into a home where he is the
only cat and has lots of attention without having to share it with another cat. He may not spray in that situation. Occasionally rehoming a pet needs to be done when the pet's incorrigible behaviour is causing a rift between people, stress or illness (allergies) in the house. I know some people put their pets before a hubby or child, but I would not. Just my
Maybe bf will surprise you and have a change of heart about moving. You never know.