I am sorry, but what does not taking her to the vet do? Going to the vet is not what makes the illness real, it is real now, there is no one here that can diagnose your cat, or tell you what to do. Your cat is not that old, and it could have started as something minor. The symptoms your cat has are very serious, just letting her be to me seems borderline cruel. If your child was that sick, would you take them to the doctor, or would you leave them in that state. Please get to the vet asap so she can be treated, she relies on you, she really needs you to take her.
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