I don't deadhead mine Chris. Just let it go. But then I collect the seed. If you don't want to do that you could deadhead.
Umm, have to remember. I gave you some lemon balm in a small pot. There were also a couple of coral bells. Is that the one? The bigger pots were Lady's Mantle and Blanket Flower. I think that's it.
Too bad it wasn't this week you were coming. My stepson brought me home 47 orchids yesterday. The greenhouse he works for was throwing them out. I'm hoping I can bring them back. Some still look really good.
I set up an area for them in the small greenhouse with blankets to diffuse the light.