okay, well the dots are there... so here are a few photos, hope this will help determine who the culprit is (see the block particles on the petals). I also incuded a photo of what they did to the some of the leafs. As you can see, when the flower opens, they eat the petals so only the inside petals are left, anyways, i will let the photos to the explaining:
Mommy to two amazing boys and one awesome girl:
Monkey and Amy (cats)
“Dogs believe they are human. Cats believe they are God.”
"The average dog is a nicer person than the average person."