I'm not going to flame you either. It's a horrible situation to be in and I truly feel for you. I hope whatever you decide, you must know it's for the best for your entire household, no point beating yourselves up over it. You're only going to make yourselves sick with the stress of it all.
Maybe you should have someone who you both trust to come in and make suggestions as to what you should do. Someone who's a little further removed who can look at things logically and not with their hearts.
Take the time, make whatever choices you must and get on with your lives.
Cindy
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