It's an option to get a pop-up box. If you have a pop up blocker, you won't be able to click on the box to open the message, but at least you'll know it's there, OG.
Go to your User CP. It's the very last thing under "Options".
The goal of life is to make your heartbeat match the beat of the universe,
to match your nature with Nature.~Joseph Campbell~
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