Your best bet for making your own food would be to head to the book store and find a book. I dont know of any good books, but hopefully someone else on here can reccommend some.
When it comes to male cats, its usually best to feed canned rather then just dry. My male cat ended up with a blocked urethra from crystals that formed, and also a UTI. This is because they naturally dont enough water, then dont get enough from dry food. I now have dry food out at all times and feed him canned food twice a day. I would much rather make his food, but he hates anything other then pizza crust!