CONGRATS!!!!! and I wish you the best in your marriage.
If you choose DDB as an option you can tell the rep that you don't want your neighbor to know it was you who called them. It'll just be between you and the DDB Rep. No worries there.
If you have anyother questions about DDB fell free to ask away.
Congrats!!! and enjoy your Honeymoon!!! Good Luck to you both!