Welcome to pets.ca, khager
There is a very specialized online 'forum' just for stomatitis.
It is a group of people with a single focus: feline stomatitis. It has been up and running for the past 9 years and has a membership of over 1000 members - that's also 1000 cats!
That group keeps on top of all the latest treatments.......and clinical trials, too.
In fact, there is one drug trial now announced on their homepage.
That's undoubtedly where you'll get good answers to your coconut oil question.
You'll find that group here: http://pets.groups.yahoo.com/group/F...ec=group&slk=2
Get yourself a new email addy (Yahoo is good) before you join up - it's a busy group - that will help you manage the info flow easier.
Keep us updated!