omd, how terrible for you all!
Definitely stay away from the internet now--cuz all you'll see are the horror stories!
How well had her spay incision healed before the problem occurred? Did the healing go well up till that point? If so, the infection won't be so very deep and with luck, she'll heal up quickly. I know how stressful it is, though--I definitely tend to be anxious all through a recovery. Sending lots of
and crossing all our paws and fingers that things go smoothly from here on out!!!