Teri please don't try to scare me, I can do that myself! Yeah I know it's going to be tough for a while. The bonding thing is a major concern that we will have to work on constantly.
If the boy has those markings on his face I could call him Inukshuk (the Eskimo symbol of friendship) and we could call him Shuk (it's pronounced shook) for short! I actually kinda like that but I'm sure DH won't.