I took the liberty of moving your post into its own thread, FIND MISSY. It should get more attention standing alone. I hope you're reunited with Missy soon!
"We are--each of us--dying; it's how we live in the meantime that makes the difference."
"It's not what you gather, but what you scatter that tells what kind of life you have lived!"
"Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle."