Welcome to the board, mip. So sorry for the circumstance that brought you here, though.
I hope you're reunited with your little Zoe soon!
"We are--each of us--dying; it's how we live in the meantime that makes the difference."
"It's not what you gather, but what you scatter that tells what kind of life you have lived!"
"Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle."