Thank you for all the advice
it is sooo appreciated!!
The trap i have made myself... i know it sounds awful but it is humane, i promise you. She goes in for food (she and another cat i was suppose to catch are used to the box) and she can't come out because the door won't let her. I will be here to take the box in and into the room.
If everything goes well, i catch her tomorrow because her room will be ready and i have a week off from school so i can be there for her
I will go get some dirt for the litter.
Sugarcatmom i am reading your story (the link you gave me) to see what is awaiting me
thank you for taking the time to answer my post. I will post more news when i have some!!