I have no cat experience, except to know when they're cute--so I have no advice, but I can
say that's one very handsome cat, jmilber.
"We are--each of us--dying; it's how we live in the meantime that makes the difference."
"It's not what you gather, but what you scatter that tells what kind of life you have lived!"
"Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle."