Can you at least get the name of the dish from your neighbor? She might be willing to tell you that since the name
is probably not a family secret.
Might help you get the right recipe from elsewhere
"We are--each of us--dying; it's how we live in the meantime that makes the difference."
"It's not what you gather, but what you scatter that tells what kind of life you have lived!"
"Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle."