Welcome to the board, Lightening! I'll ask our administrator, Marko, to enable your private messaging as soon as he logs on so that members can PM you with suggestions.
Enjoy your stay!
"We are--each of us--dying; it's how we live in the meantime that makes the difference."
"It's not what you gather, but what you scatter that tells what kind of life you have lived!"
"Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle."