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Crunchie passed over the bridge...6:54pm

cpietra16
August 22nd, 2010, 07:05 PM
My poor little Crunchie passed away just now and I think I killed her.
I was trying to get her to drink and she fought me and I may have gotten some liquid in her lungs or maybe made her heart stop by forcing her to drink...OMG...she just went limp took a few breaths like she was forcing to breath...I think I killed her too soon... at 6:54 she took her last breath...
I'm so sorry Crunchie...
October 1, 1991- August 22, 2010. 18years old. She never reached her 19th birthday...:(:rip:my little angel. I'm sorry.

14+kitties
August 22nd, 2010, 07:10 PM
:grouphug: Carmen sweetie - it was meant to be. You didn't kill her. Don't beat yourself up over it. Crunchie would thank you if she could. She is now watching you from the bridge with her friends. :grouphug: I am so sorry for your loss.
:candle::rip:Crunchie :candle:

JennieV
August 22nd, 2010, 07:18 PM
:( Awwww CP, I am so sorry...
I dont think you killed her at all, I think it was time for her to go.
:shrug: We dont have the power of knowing when it is or where or how, but she had you and she was one hell of a lucky kitty.
:rip::candle: Crunchie :candle::rip:

Love4himies
August 22nd, 2010, 07:30 PM
I am so sorry, :grouphug::grouphug:

I don't think it would have made any difference, it was her time and she was tired:grouphug::grouphug:. She was so blessed to have you for a long 19 years. :grouphug:

:rip: Crunchie :candle:

Frenchy
August 22nd, 2010, 07:51 PM
I also think it was her time to leave cpietra. :( you did all you could. Not too many cats live to be 19 yr old ! She had a good life with you. :grouphug:

RIP Crunchie :candle:

cpietra16
August 22nd, 2010, 07:58 PM
Hi Frenchy...thank you for the info you sent me. I am so upset that when the gentle answered...I blubbered about getting the number from a girl named...frenchy...I couldn't for the life of me remember your name...I'm sorry. I think the guy who answered thinks Im crazy...crying like an idiot...between crying to him and Jennie...Im on a role...

Maianne
August 22nd, 2010, 07:59 PM
Ohhh I'm so sorry for your loss... please don't think you did it to her! Like everyone else said, it was her time. It seems like she was very loved by you and that's what matters... you gave her a good life. <3

JennieV
August 22nd, 2010, 08:11 PM
Hi Frenchy...thank you for the info you sent me. I am so upset that when the gentle answered...I blubbered about getting the number from a girl named...frenchy...I couldn't for the life of me remember your name...I'm sorry. I think the guy who answered thinks Im crazy...crying like an idiot...between crying to him and Jennie...Im on a role...

CP, dont even worry about it, you need to grieve and this was a family member, and its so hard! and who would understand you better than us? :( you fought hard for her, but was just her time to go... :(
You got my shoulder any time you need, you hear?? :grouphug:

Winston
August 22nd, 2010, 08:17 PM
:grouphug::grouphug: to you mf! :grouphug::grouphug:

You knew it was time....not quite 19 but an awesome age for a kittie! Goes to show you how awesome of a life she.had to reach that age. ..I wish you and the family peace with this. Crunchie has been released of the pain and can now run free with all the others who went before. :rip:

You can now concentrate on Nickie as she needs you now. You know how to reach me. My heart is with you.

Cindy

hazelrunpack
August 22nd, 2010, 10:23 PM
I'm so sorry, cpietra :grouphug:

:candle: Crunchie

Dee-O-Gee
August 22nd, 2010, 10:40 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss cpietra16.

18 years is a long healthy time for any animal especially Crunchie.

:candle: Sweet Crunchie :candle:

:grouphug: :grouphug:

CsqU4r3d
August 22nd, 2010, 10:57 PM
My heart breaks for you ... try not to blame yourself... Crunchie lived a long life...it was time..:cry::candle::angel::rip::grouphug:

Tundra_Queen
August 23rd, 2010, 09:01 AM
awww CP...I'm so sorry for your loss. :grouphug:

:rip: Crunchie :(

BenMax
August 23rd, 2010, 09:51 AM
My sincere condolences dear friend. :grouphug:

CP - you did not kill Crunchie. It was her time to leave this world to enter another.

RIP dear Crunchie.:rip:. Run free and rejuvenated.:angel:

mastifflover
August 23rd, 2010, 10:06 AM
I am so sorry Carmen I am sure you did not kill her get that notion out of your head.

ancientgirl
August 23rd, 2010, 10:21 AM
I'm so sorry for your loss. As the other said, don't beat yourself up. It was her time. You didn't kill her. She lived a long life, and it's apparent her heart just wasn't as strong as it used to be. If you can see one good thing in this, you were able to be with her in the end instead of her being alone when she passed.

BrownEyedGirl
August 23rd, 2010, 10:50 AM
I am so very sorry for your loss.

Chris21711
August 23rd, 2010, 12:13 PM
I'm very sorry to hear of your loss Cpietra :grouphug:

:candle: Crunchie

diandpat
August 23rd, 2010, 02:08 PM
:rip: Crunchie...what a long wonderful life you led. Now off to the Bridge young whole and healthy keeping an eye on the Mummy who loved you so :cloud9:

rainbow
August 23rd, 2010, 02:18 PM
My deepest condolences, cpietra. :grouphug:


:rip: Crunchie :candle:

clm
August 23rd, 2010, 04:21 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss. :candle: 18 is a wonderful long life for a cat. Both of my previous cats also passed away at home with us and were both 18 when they passed. I know how hard it is, but you were a wonderful mom and in no way responsible for her passing. It was her time and she's now at peace. :grouphug:

clm

Dog Dancer
August 23rd, 2010, 05:26 PM
Aww cpietra, you didn't do anything wrong. It was simply Crunchie's time to go. And as was said, you were with her. What more could she have asked for really. What a wonderful age she reached, that's testament to the loving care you gave her. RIP sweet Crunchie, knowing how well you were loved.

chico2
August 23rd, 2010, 05:57 PM
cpietra,I am so very sorry you lost Chrunchie and in such a dramatic way,but she's ok now,she passed knowing she was very much loved,with the person she loved the most.

I know we tend to blame ourselves,thinking I did not do this and that,I should have done that..etc,etc...but you were not to blame,certainly did not kill Chrunchie.
She felt it was her time to go and I know she does not want you to blame yourself,she loved you:cat:
:rip:sweet Chrunchie

krdahmer
August 23rd, 2010, 09:51 PM
I am so so sorry for your loss, all she's going to remember are the years and years of love and affection....:grouphug::cry::candle:

luckypenny
August 23rd, 2010, 11:28 PM
:grouphug:

:candle: Crunchie

TeriM
August 24th, 2010, 03:02 AM
I'm so sorry cpietra :grouphug:.

:candle:

cpietra16
August 24th, 2010, 08:41 AM
I am missing my typical morning...who gets the last drop? Crunchie always did!:rolleyes:
It's very quiet this morning. :(

cpietra16
August 24th, 2010, 08:50 AM
Winnie seems to be doing ok...she refuses to go anywhere near the counch; the place where Crunchie took her last breath...

Sylvie
August 24th, 2010, 10:09 AM
I am so sorry for your loss. :grouphug:

:rip: Crunchie

maneater
August 24th, 2010, 09:20 PM
I am so sorry for your loss. Looks like Crunchie lived a long and happy life. :candle::grouphug::angel2: