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am i being cruel/

Jim Hall
July 17th, 2009, 10:39 AM
somama isin my lap purring sine i have taken her in to recover her spay she ahs been petted by everyone
she has to go back out am i being cruel for petting her she is sleeping on my ;ap right now

G**** it

July 17th, 2009, 10:44 AM
No you're not being cruel Jim, how can giving a kitteh lovins' be cruel...I hope you can find a rescue to take her before she has to go back outside.

What does Diva DU and Manda think of her?

Jim Hall
July 17th, 2009, 10:49 AM
du is ignoring her and manda is watchung her very carefuuly

July 17th, 2009, 11:11 AM
Any chance you could just hang onto her inside till a place opens up with a rescue? It's hard, I know, cuz if you can't, you can't. But keep in mind that if you do have to release her, she's at least way better off than she was before and she can still come back to you for food! :grouphug:

:goodvibes: that something opens up or that you find someone suitable who needs a kitty to love!

Jim Hall
July 17th, 2009, 11:21 AM
no i cant DU is stressed about her in here and du is my number one priority i know she will hang around she always has but its just such a shame

July 17th, 2009, 11:51 AM
Awe Jim thats too bad! is there any way she can take over a spare room until you can get her into rescue? the more human contact she has the better? I feel for you!

July 17th, 2009, 12:11 PM
Oh no Jim, that's not cruel :sad:. The person(s) responsible for her being outdoors without a home is the cruel one....cruel to both the kitty and to you for having to clean up their mess.


July 17th, 2009, 01:53 PM
Jim, I totally understand how you feel. You have done a lot to help her. I know if you could, you would keep her inside. I think helping find her a wonderful home would be the best thing you can do. In the meantime, showing her that being around someone and being petted is a wonderful thing too, because it will help her once she's in her new home.

July 17th, 2009, 02:10 PM
Aww, Jim, my heart goes out to you're between a rock and a hard place but DU does come first. :grouphug:

I hope someone realizes what a sweet pretty girl Mama Miow is and that you are able to find the perfect home for her quickly. :fingerscr :goodvibes:

July 17th, 2009, 02:12 PM
Oh no Jim, that's not cruel :sad:. The person(s) responsible for her being outdoors without a home is the cruel one....cruel to both the kitty and to you for having to clean up their mess.


Amen LP...I have read soooooooooooo many posts on this board of people moving heaven and earth to care for and tend to all these poor stray/feral cats/kittens and then expressing guilt when they finally have no more room.

The only people who should be feeling guilt are the heartless SOBs who let them out in the first place because they shed/don't match the furniture/aren't cute anymore/moved/or misunderstood that they DO NOT like being outside cats :yell::yell::yell:

July 17th, 2009, 02:42 PM
No aren't being cruel...all kittehs need love :cloud9:

July 17th, 2009, 04:03 PM
Jim,you are showing this little girl,that humans can be good,I wish I could do the same with my stray:sad:
However,I could never take in a mature cat with my boys,it would totally upset the sort of harmony we have now.
My Chico suffered when I took in Vinnie,Chico and Rocky used to be great buddies,even sleep and cuddle together,but that all stopped when Vinnie came,so I totally understand:cat:

July 17th, 2009, 04:13 PM
Jim, let the others have said showing the kitty that humans can give love is a wonderful gift.

does she have a little cat house/ shelter outside that she could go to after she heals until she gets a forever home? Where she would be close to you and still get lovins and food when u are outside?


Jim Hall
July 17th, 2009, 07:09 PM
no it they get torn down or taken away is the city and i rent
anyway thanks for the support lets closethis one any one can see
' the wild kingdom hood style " will try to take some of the hood

u guys are magnifecent!!!mnuhhaaaaaa

July 17th, 2009, 08:05 PM
Geezz Jim, thanks for my daily cry! You do so much for those stray kitties around your place. No one else seems to care. Momma Miow is so lucky to have crossed your path. You probably have saved her life. At least you have stopped her churning out more babies two, three times a year. Please don't feel guilty. :grouphug: