waterchika
August 18th, 2007, 08:03 PM
Let me give you a background of the situation:
I live with 4 other girls and two dogs. Neither is mine. One is a minnie snouzer (sp?) who is female and 9 months old and is perfectly trained. The other is a 2 yr old pomeranian male who is not fixed and pees in our house every chance he gets, and it is disgusting and irritating especially since someone other than the owner ends up cleaning it up most of the time. I honestly don't know why the dog does this, whether it is out of anger that his owner is not home with him very often (full time job), lack of training, or whatever. And I know the obvious advice as to what I can do would be to talk to the owner about the problems.The problem is that the owner is a very good friend, and it is awkward to address this issue with them in the sense that they get very defensive and upset if its even brought up, and I would personally rather live with this than have a falling out over a stupid dog.
Lately the dog has been forced to live outside the entire day the owner is at work, but if it gets too hot in the house we wind up having to put the dog in their room with the door shut so we can open doors for ventilation. I feel bad doing this. I am just wondering if there is anything I can personally do with the dog that isn't too time consuming (I have a life and responsibilities of my own afterall) that could maybe help the situation? I don't know if anyone else has had a similar situation happen and what they did to cope with it? Because I am honestly close to accidentally leaving the gate open and hoping it runs away I am getting so over this dog. Thanks!
I live with 4 other girls and two dogs. Neither is mine. One is a minnie snouzer (sp?) who is female and 9 months old and is perfectly trained. The other is a 2 yr old pomeranian male who is not fixed and pees in our house every chance he gets, and it is disgusting and irritating especially since someone other than the owner ends up cleaning it up most of the time. I honestly don't know why the dog does this, whether it is out of anger that his owner is not home with him very often (full time job), lack of training, or whatever. And I know the obvious advice as to what I can do would be to talk to the owner about the problems.The problem is that the owner is a very good friend, and it is awkward to address this issue with them in the sense that they get very defensive and upset if its even brought up, and I would personally rather live with this than have a falling out over a stupid dog.
Lately the dog has been forced to live outside the entire day the owner is at work, but if it gets too hot in the house we wind up having to put the dog in their room with the door shut so we can open doors for ventilation. I feel bad doing this. I am just wondering if there is anything I can personally do with the dog that isn't too time consuming (I have a life and responsibilities of my own afterall) that could maybe help the situation? I don't know if anyone else has had a similar situation happen and what they did to cope with it? Because I am honestly close to accidentally leaving the gate open and hoping it runs away I am getting so over this dog. Thanks!
