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black lab help

brutie bum
February 8th, 2007, 08:59 PM
I have a 6 month old lab. He listens very well to sit, down etc.... the problem is when he is left alone in the house. We tried using a crate but every single day i was scrubbing down my whole kitchen. He goes to the bathroom in it then jumps around so there was crap marks on the fridge, stove, freezer etc... you name it he got crap on it. so now we leave him in the house. He has chewed every single one of the seats on the kitchen chairs in the corners, chewed the table, trying to chew the baseboards. He is completely wrecking my house. Today i got home to no curtains left on the patio door and the curtain rod all bent. He has lots and lots of chew toys, bones so its not cuz he is bored or so i dont think...does anyone have any suggestions as to what I can do to make this stop. My husband is having a fit and is ready to get rid of him.

February 8th, 2007, 09:03 PM
well he's not supposed to poop in the crate. You have to properly crate train him. You did it wrong, that's why he pooped there.

you take him poo BEFORE you put him in th crate.

How long does he stay in teh crate for?? Because if he's not properly house trained then he won't hold it in for that long.

adn you need to get him used to the crate; that's the only way he won't chew furniture---that and you need to get him chew toys for him to chew instead:thumbs up

February 8th, 2007, 09:05 PM
A tired dog is a good dog and it doesn't sound like your dog is very tired.:o How much exercise is he getting?

brutie bum
February 8th, 2007, 09:15 PM
I do take him to the bathroom before putting him in there. He sleeps in our room during the night without a crate and he holds himself. Its like the second you leave he has to go on the floor. I can go across the street to the store and when i get back there is pee and poo. could this be his nerves or something for being left alone. and he does get lots of excercise, in and out of the house. he runs around with my 4 kids and we also have 2 cats that keep him running around....

February 8th, 2007, 10:00 PM
Running around with your kids to release energy is sort of like going to chucky cheese vs running a marathon. They're very two different ways of burning off energy (one gets you all worked up, the other leaves you tired).

I would suggest taking your dog for a LONG controlled walk (or even better, a long run) before attempting to leave him alone.

Dad of Dog's
February 8th, 2007, 11:05 PM
Night training is very different from day training. It sounds as if your puppy is not getting nearly enough exercise. You will need to exercise him til he is tired, if energy is back in a half hour he is not getting enough. If he is doing laps in the home, he is not getting enough. Walking does not get rid of enough unless you are taking a long fast paced walk or run.
Has he been to obedience. He has too much freedom that he is not ready for. He shouldn't be left out if he is destructive. Get an x-pen to contain him while you are out and for the potty training, you need to start over from scratch. He needs the basics and doesn't have them.
Having chew toys out all the time get very boring very quickly. Rotate the toys so that there is always something interesting.
Have you considered daycare for your pup. This will take care of the exercise part as well as teach him many other important skills. This will make it easier for you to teach him acceptable behaviours because he won't be spun out and over stimulated. It will make it easier for him to learn and retain what you teach him.

Is he fixed, he may also be beginning to mark.
Are you leaving his food out to free feed. Not giving scheduled meals make it difficult to potty train and doesn't help with setting up pack status.
What are you using to clean up. You need an enzymatic cleaner to remove all the smells.

February 9th, 2007, 11:17 AM
I know how discouraging this can be...when we first got Buster, he had seperation anxiety which made him poop in his crate and then he'd dance around in it and there would be poop EVERYWHERE :eek: :yuck:

Labs need alot of exercice and become very destructive when they don't get it. He's bored, he doesn't know he's doing something wrong, he's just trying to keep his mind occupied.

I recommend you take him for a walk in the morning before leaving for work and then another walk when you come home.

Also, he needs to be crate trained properly. The easiest way to do this is to introduce the crate slowly. You put him in for 2 minutes, then let him out. Slowly increase the time he spends in there. Also, you should start feeding him in his crate. Dogs will rarely pee or poo where they eat. I used to leave his empty food bowl in there to remid him that's where he was going to be eating, and it seemed to help.

I know right now it feels like a huge deal, and that he's doing this just to piss you off (trust me, I was in your shoes 2 years ago!!), but dogs don't 'take revenge', all he needs is a little more exercice and a little patience. Good luck :thumbs up

February 9th, 2007, 07:37 PM
This sounds like the beginning of separation anxiety and you need to start teaching him how to be alone in shorter spurts.

Please do not over exercise this young pup in long sessions. It can damage his bones and joints for life. Lots of shorter physical and mental workouts get the job done without taxing his body.

I would recommend that he spend short times in the crate with you home - 5 minutes here - 10 mintues there - growing to longer times. Then when he adjusts to that you can start practicing leaving the house for 5 seconds and then 20 seconds and so on. Do not say good-bye or make a fuss when you leave and don't acknowledge him when you return. You need to become an non-event.

Are you leaving him with good chew toys in the crate? It would be good for him to have something to release his stress on.

Also a DAP diffuser might help him to stay calm more naturally.

February 10th, 2007, 08:35 PM
This was pinned in another forum, but has a lot of advice and tips from someone who has an SA dog like yours. Severe SA is no picnic and there are no quick and easy fixes. it's a phobia not just a behaviour problem I hope the article helps, one thing I will add , Clomicalm which is mentioned takes 4 to 6 weeks to take effect, if a dog is in danger of hurting himself because the panic attacks are so bad, sometimes is worth using small doses of valium for the first 6 weeks, the pooping is involuntary the dog has no control over, the bowels become too over active due to the stress

Sorry! I worked all weekend so am just getting around to checking the board. How long have you had Harry? It took a good 6-8 months for Demps to get to where I wasn't afraid to come home.

First, pick up that treat immediately when you get home, whether or not he has eaten it. Instead of it being something that calms Harry down, it is being linked with you coming home. Not good. It's probably a good idea to keep using it and hopefully he will eventually calm down enough to benefit from it.

Have you spoken to your vet? I am not big on medication, but Clomicalm was something I went for after 1 month. It didn't change Dempsey's personality and he never seemed "drugged". It was about $35/month- definitely worth it even if you have to eat ramen noodles the whole time. Seriously!

The Clomicalm just helps with that anxiety enough so that the behavior modification you are implementing will even be noticed. Harry is probably so worked up that he doesn't even notice what you are doing- other than leaving.

Can you get a new crate so he cannot escape? I know they are expensive, but it sounds like the crate is probably the best, safest place for him at the moment. Maybe your group has one you can borrow or check the classified ads, that is where I found mine.

Consistency is important in the sense of doing the same thing when you leave and get home. But, it's good to be inconsistent about the times you are leaving. I think it would be good if you could leave Harry home a bit each day. It is probably more harmful if he is rarely left alone because you aren't able to work on the problem.

Ignore him for about 15 minutes before you are going to leave. Put him in his crate, show no hesitancy or doubt on your part, give him his treat, and leave. Just go get the mail or take a walk around the block. Come back in, make him be quiet before you let him out of the crate, then ignore him for another 15 minutes. It is hard because they will do everything they can to get their attention, but do ignore him. Eventually, you probably won't have to ignore him, but that will be quite awhile. Increase the amount of time that you are gone.

Has Harry been through obedience class? I so strongly recommend this for dogs with SA. It helped improve D's confidence so much. We were at a M&G and one of his trainers came in and could not believe it was the same dog. It is also good for the dog to know commands like sit and down for when you come home and he is really excited.

Increase exercise. This helped us so much. I made those walks so much longer. If Harry is tired, he is much more likely to sleep.

Those are the big ones that really helped in our situation. Here's the list that I put together. Make sure you really examine your environment to see what could affect the anxiety- for Demps, one of the things turned out to be the answering machine.

Separation Anxiety

Tip #1
Invest in a Kong or two (at pet stores), it will become your best friend. Fill the Kong with goodies- dog cookies, etc and seal with peanut butter, cream cheese, or plain yogurt. I found that Dempsey had fewer pooping accidents if we did not use kibble in the Kong. Give your dog the Kong every time you leave him/her alone and pick it up again as soon as you get home. You can even freeze the Kong so that it lasts longer. Your dog will learn to associate your departure with getting a yummy treat. It took some time, but Dempsey now gets excited when he is left alone- because he knows he's getting a treat!

Tip #2
If you crate your dog, do not crate only when you leave him/her alone. Crate your dog while you are in the room watching television, cleaning, or doing whatever. You may want to even consider feeding your dog in the crate. Give treats in the crate. If you only crate when leaving your dog home alone, she/he will learn to associate the crate with being home alone- not what you want! Make the crate a positive place to be.

Tip #3
Do not, do not, do not make a big deal out of coming and going. If you spend a lot of time loving on your dog before leaving or when you first arrive home, s/he will get excited and think it's a big deal. You want your dog to learn that you leaving or getting home is nothing to be excited about. Before you leave, ignore your dog for about 15 minutes. Do not give attention, pet, etc right before you leave. Also, when you get home, ignore your dog for about 10 - 15 minutes. I know this can seem really mean, but it is best for your dog in the long run. In addition, it is probably a good idea to act neutral as well when your dog is going along with you so s/he continue to think departures are no big deal.

Tip #4
Obedience class can help build confidence a lot. We took an 8 week class over the summer and the instructors were pretty surprised by how Dempsey really came out of his shell and quit cowering behind me. And hey, it can't hurt to have a dog who knows how to sit and stay! Make sure you practice at home as well. Practicing commands can be a nice way of bonding with your dog, increasing confidence, and tiring him/her out before you leave!

Tip #5
Does your dog try to be in constant proximity of you? It may seem cute and sweet but do not encourage it. Dempsey used to have to have some part of his body always touching mine. Made it pretty difficult to even go to the bathroom! Gradually work on putting some physical distance between you and your dog- scoot away on the couch or sit in a different chair. If your dog constantly has to be touching you, how will you make it to work? Dempsey used to follow me up and down the stairs constantly- he couldn't be alone in a room for even a few seconds! (This may not be unusual when your dog first arrives, but when it continues, it can be a problem). Work on this as well- go to the bathroom alone and shut the door all the way, go upstairs, etc. Work on being out of sight of your dog, increasing the amount of time you are in different rooms from each other.

Tip #6
Where does your dog sleep? If she/he sleeps in your bed, you might want to consider a doggie bed. Put your dog's bed next to yours or in the same room and encourage the dog to sleep there. (I know this is hard, especially during winter since greyhounds sure are warm!)

Tip #7
Does your dog have problems with defecating or urinating in the house or crate? This was the part of Dempsey's separation anxiety that stuck around the longest. Nothing seemed to work. I moved his bed to the area (right in front of the door) where he kept pooping. He would just go on top of his bed and finally ruined the bed. What helped the most was to feed him in this spot and keep his dishes there. It's a pain since it's right near the door, but it was SO worth it! Make sure you clean the area as best as you can so there is no remaining smell to encourage future peeing or pooping. Take the dog out of the room while you clean (and light some candles for your own benefit!). Also, make sure you have learned your dog's schedule and when he/she needs to actually go (usually about 20 minutes or so after eating, if you feed commercial kibble) and give him/her opportunity to go.

Tip #8
The window blinds or curtains can be important to consider. I used to always leave the blinds open, thinking it would reassure Dempsey to see outside. Although this does work for some dogs, it was not for Dempsey. As soon as I started leaving the blinds closed, he did better. Now, if he wants to see outside, he peaks around the edge of the blinds. I live in an apartment building and the windows face the parking lot. With people constantly coming and going, I think it was just too much excitement for him!

Tip #9
Do not be afraid to ask your vet about medication. Dempsey was on Clomicalm for about 5 months. One month's supply is about $35. After about 4 months, I cut the dose in half and after another month, he was completely off of it. He showed no side effects whatsoever from the Clomicalm. If you do decide to use this medication, expect up to a month or two to see effects. If Clomicalm doesn't work, there are other medications available. Rescue Remedy is another thing to consider and is safe as well (available at GNC). Our holistic vet gave us a combination of Bach remedies and this seemed to help as well. If you are not satisfied by the response from your vet, go on to another one!

Tip #10
Try leaving a piece of clothing that you have recently worn with your dog. Your scent may help to keep him/her calm. Favorite stuffed animals may also help calm your dog. Even an old shoe might help. Dempsey loves to carry shoes around and sleeps with his nose in them (gross, I know, but he doesn't chew!).

Tip #11
Exercise!! Increase your dog's amount of exercise- a tired dog is a sleeping dog! And exercise is good for you, too! I know that in the morning, it can be difficult to increase exercise and still allow the recommended 2 hours before/after feeding. Do the best you can. (Here is where obedience classes help, you can just practice commands as extra exercise!).

Tip #12
Are there cues that signal your departures? Mess with these. Carry your keys around and jingle them, carry your purse around, put your shoes on, put some make-up on (but don't leave!). I sometimes shower at night and sometimes in the morning- just to confuse Dempsey. I put my make-up on at work and don't blow dry my hair very often. Dog's pick up on these cues and try to predict when you'll be leaving. Dempsey used to sit on the couch with pure panic on his face when I got out of the shower in the mornings (and it wasn't from the towel on my head!)

Tip #13
Try leaving the TV or radio on when you leave your dog behind. The noise can help keep outside noises at a minimum and also be comforting to your dog. I quickly learned that Dempsey didn't like being alone in the dark (weird dog) so I leave a light or TV on when I go somewhere at night.

Tip #14
I make sure that the volume on my answering machine is off when I leave. When I am home and it goes off, Dempsey gets excited. It is probably confusing to dogs to hear their owner's voice, but not be able to find him/her!

Tip #15
Does your dog like toys? Leave several out each day, but vary them day to day so he/she gets different ones each day.

Tip #16
Do you need other people to talk to about this? There is now a mailing list at called k9sepanx for humans who have dogs with separation anxiety. A great place to get new ideas from or just vent!

Tip #17
Keep a journal. Since Dempsey's main problem after his anxiety had decreased some, was pooping every time he was left alone, I had to vary his diet and when he ate. Keeping track of everything he ate, when, how much, etc and writing down messes/getting into things, etc really helped me pay attention to what I was doing.

Tip #18
Do you have access to a videocamera? Stick it out of reach of your dog and have it record while you are gone. Usually, if the dog is going to do something, it is within the first 30 minutes or so of departure. Actually being able to see what your dog is doing might give you some insight into what to try.


PS- I forgot, the journaling was a HUGE help in figuring out what was going on with Dempsey. And lots of wine!

February 12th, 2007, 02:52 PM
Exceptional advise!!!::cool: :cloud9: :angel: Work with it and it will work with you!:highfive:

February 12th, 2007, 03:05 PM
:thumbs up excellent post OG !

February 12th, 2007, 04:48 PM
Welcome to the world of having a "maniac" black Lab.

I have to agree with everyone else on this. Sounds like Seperation Anxiety!
Just remember, the problem wont be solved over night, and if dog isn't learning, then "he" doesnt undertand what "he's" meant to do.

Im sure with love and time, you will sort things out.
Good luck.

February 13th, 2007, 02:30 AM
another thing to remember is that he is ONLY a pup.
Black labs out of all the labs are the most energetic, but the easiest to train.
Book him into doogy day care if you are out all day.
If I lived closer I would take him off your hands.
I know what the blacks are like... in the end all the hard work WILL pay off.,they are loyal and devoted. The more you put into them, the more you get from them.
Please dont give up on him.

February 13th, 2007, 02:57 PM
Good advise everyone....I just went through this about 3-4 months ago with my almost two year old pitbull....What I did was slowly introduce him to the kennel again and the potty training....I used kongs in his kennel while I was away. I put peanutbutter in them and then put it in the freezer until it was time for me to leave...I told him kennel and gave him his kong and left...I didnt say anything to him but "kennel". The only time he got the kong was when I was away. It seemed to work for him. He wasn't afraid of the kennel and he knew he was getting a treat while I was away and it kept him busy.