January 5th, 2007, 10:30 PM
Well I am wondering if anybody has a good reason for my cat Karma's behavior. My boyfriend and I have had her since she was 9 weeks old and have now had her for 1 year 3 months. I am the primary care giver ex: feeding, litter box, playing with her, grooming, etc. My boyfriend say's everytime I leave the house my cat automatically becomes very affectionate towards him. She is usually affectionate towards both of us at night when it's bed time. But throughout most of the day she's busy doing her own thing.. and sleeps/plays on her own. But he just rants and raves how much love he get's when I leave. Hmmm... I am stumped, because she never gets as clingy towards ME when HE leaves. I know that I spoil her unbelievably more than most parents would to a first child. This just bothers me, why does she give him so much love as soon as I leave? Please give me any feedback, weather it be good/bad... any ideas or info on her behavior are going to help!:confused: :shrug: Ok, I should have added that she will only go up to him for a short period of time (3-5 mins) and then be on her way. Unless she falls asleep on him. But, it's not like she need's to beg for attention because I give her plenty of it throughout the day. And I know she likes me, I get the same attention he gets, and more because she follow's me around the house everywhere I go and has to be in the same room as me, even while I use the bathroom and shower. I was just concerned why she might be so over-affectionate to him when she see's me leaving.