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Sad news.

September 1st, 2005, 07:09 PM
Recently I found out I was pregnant. I was going to wait to tell you guys in a little while. I was about 6 weeks when I found out. Tomas and I were elated. Unfortunatly Friday I misscarried at 8 weeks. I'm having a really hard time right now, so is Tomas. It didn't help that I started school monday. I was hoping maybe you guys could say a little prayer for him (I know it was too soon to know but I just had a feeling it was a him).

Gavin James
left us 8-26-05
estimated due date 3-22-06

I loved you before I met you and I'll love you for eternity. Please find peace wherever you are.

September 1st, 2005, 07:16 PM
Gavin James...what a beautiful name. I am so sorry. I will pray for him and his family.

September 1st, 2005, 07:23 PM
So very sorry Jackie. I miscarried at 12 weeks and it is always difficult. Allow yourself to grieve but know that miscarriage is normally God's way of taking Angels early.

September 1st, 2005, 08:17 PM
Oh, Jackie. :sorry: I miscarried once at about 8 weeks as well. :sad: It's another one of those experiences that you can't quite understand until you've lived it. I agree with Tigger, though. Sometimes these things happen for a reason, and it was probably for the best. Now you have your own little angel watching over you. :grouphug:

September 1st, 2005, 08:30 PM
I am soooooooooo very sorry Jackie.

I had a tubal pregnancy with twins.They would have been 8..I was 8 weeks.And I went through hell.So I feel your pain. :grouphug:

love my dogs
September 1st, 2005, 08:30 PM
So sorry jackie. My prayers are with you. I know it can be very difficult and dissappointing, especially if you had planning for some time.
I have worked with pregnant women for several years, and perhaps you can find some comfort knowing that you are not alone. Many, many women miscarry with their first, so you are not alone in your grieving.
I'm sure that you will get pregnant again very soon. I wish you all the best.

September 1st, 2005, 09:00 PM
Godspeed little Gavin :angel:

Rick C
September 1st, 2005, 09:52 PM
Sorry to hear of your loss.

Rick C

September 1st, 2005, 10:59 PM
I'm so sorry Jackie! I have a friend who recently went through this and she said "It's amazing how quickly you get attached to it." I can't imagine. :( Please don't get too down. It might sound trivial, but the reasoning behind it all really isn't anything personal. I know it's very hard. Just take care of yourself. :grouphug: :love:

September 2nd, 2005, 01:58 AM
oh jackie, i am soo sorry, that is jsut sad news for sure. my heart andthoughts are with you and your fella, i again am soo sorry.

keep well, remeber to eat well if you can, you need your strength, please take care and my thoughts are most definatly with you...

i am jsut so sorry for yoru loss, right now i can only imagine how great that is and i feel for you i truly do....

please try and take care, keep well, and make sure you and that man get a bit of quite time together, look after each other thats so important in hard times....

September 2nd, 2005, 08:57 AM
I am so sorry Jackie. So many of our friends went through that. I won't say I know exactly how you feel, but I can imagine. Stay strong, and if you need someone to talk to, we are all hear. :grouphug:

September 2nd, 2005, 09:07 AM
Terribly sorry to hear that news.

We are here to support you though.

I wish you strength and courage.

:sorry: again,


September 2nd, 2005, 11:02 AM
Sorry Jackie. It must be so disapointing.
I am very sorry.

I hope you know that we are here for you! Take care girl!

Godspeed Gavin. The Lord needed an angel and got one in him.

September 2nd, 2005, 11:50 AM
Thank so much for all the well wishes. Its been really hard. Some of you know we were having a hard time conceving (trying for over a year) so losing this little one was very difficult. We have decided to stop trying for a while, we need some time to grieve. We're not sure when we will try agian but it probably won't be for a while. But I wanted to let you know that you guys are great support and you all mean very much to me.

September 2nd, 2005, 12:12 PM
and you mean alot to us so take care! I am thinking about you and your husband.

Dog Dancer
September 2nd, 2005, 12:15 PM
Jackie, so sorry to hear of your loss. You and Thomas will be strong and Gavin James will help watch over you now. Take your time and it's amazing the things that happen when we least expect it. Be there for each other now and grieve together. Talk lots. I can't know your pain, but hugs to you both with all my heart.

September 2nd, 2005, 01:40 PM
Jackie I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you.

September 2nd, 2005, 05:40 PM
I am so sorry for your loss. You are both in my prayers.

September 8th, 2005, 11:00 PM
I'm sorry for your loss... statistics show that actually a lot of women dont even know they're pregnant and miscarry without ever finding out.

you're not standing alone.

seek help if you're looking to grow your family. and good luck!

September 11th, 2005, 02:14 AM
Jackie, I'm so sorry to learn of this sad news.
My heart goes out to you at this difficult time. :grouphug:
I will keep you both in my prayers, and send you my deepest sympathies.