March 24th, 2005, 02:45 PM
I had my cats trained so they would not do things that they were not allowed, but my boyfriend has spoiled them so bad, that they are back doing things that I trained them not to do. My one cat cries all the time for food, I've caught them on the kitchen table, and they have been doing things they know they are not supposed to do. I feel like the meany because I have to punish them. And my boyfriend won't listen when I tell him to stop letting them do things that they are not allowed to do. What should I do about this whole situation. They were such good cats and now they are always getting into trouble. Please help, thanks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
March 24th, 2005, 05:56 PM
You need to work this out with your bf because these poor cats are getting a mixed message. Explain to him ow important it is!
March 24th, 2005, 06:26 PM
Ya, I give the same advice for this one as for your other question-- along the lines of kick his a** for not respecting your wishes and your cats.
March 24th, 2005, 06:29 PM
You and your bf both have to be on the same page for this to work.
either your way or his way, you have to pick one and BOTH stick to it for it to work! (or maybe you two can meet somewhere in the middle)but it is very important that you are both doing the same thing.
If you and your bf ever plan on having kids, you better figure this out long before then, because it will be even worse with kids.