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Cat Communication
Cat Communication
Cats may not be able to speak English but they do have many other ways in which they can ‘talk’ to you. Cats are cognitive animals, they solve problems just like any other highly developed species. Cats can and will communicate with you if you allow them to express themselves, talk back to them and try to understand what they are saying. Learn what your cat’s different signals mean so that you and your cat can communicate regularly. This will not only improve the bond with your cat and keep your cat happy, but it will also allow you to better read your cat’s signals so you know when your cat wants to play or just wants to be left alone!
Tails
Tails are probably one of the best communication indicators that cats have. One can almost read every cat feeling and thought by looking at his/her tail.
- Tail arched and puffed out or bristled – your cat is scared or fearful and is ready to attack or defend itself. The bristling is instinctual as it makes the cat look larger.
- Tail straight up in the air and fully puffed out or bristled – your cat is angered, aggressive and ready to attack.
- Tail straight up in the air and quivering a bit – your cat’s tail moves this way when spraying urine to mark territory; however, once your cat is spayed or neutered he/she will continue to move his/her tail this way (without any spray or urine being excreted) when you greet him/her. This is your cats way of saying, ‘hi, it’s your loving cat!’
- Tail straight up and unmoving – an unabashed greeting. This is what a mother cat does to her kitten to tell him/her to inspect her rear.
- Tail straight up but the tip tilted to one side – your cat is very interested and intrigued by something; your cat is happy and friendly.
- Tail straight up or just slightly raised and curved like a question mark – your cat is very excited and interested in something.
- Tail curved down and then back up again near the tip – your cat is very relaxed and content.
- Tail still but tip of tail quivering or twitching – your cat is mildly irritated. Your cat may attack if the twitching becomes violent enough.
- Tail swishing from side to side rapidly or violently – your cat is about to attack something, this is seen during fights and play time. This is not the same as tail wagging in dogs.
- Tail held to one side – your cat is giving a sexual invitation (generally only females in heat do this).
- Tail held low and puffed out or bristled – your cat is intensely afraid.
- Tail held low and tucked between the hind legs – your cat is showing his submission or defeat.
Ears
Cats ears are another way that a cat expresses his/her emotions.
- Ears pointing forward and slightly outward – your cat is relaxed and happy.
- Ears very straight up and forward – your cat is listening to something that is intriguing.
- Ears twitching nervously – your cat is agitated and nervous.
- Ears flat against the head – your cat is frightened and may attack (this is instinctual as to protect the ears during a fight).
- Ears back or in between alert and defensive position – your cat is aggressive and may attack.
Back/Fur
In general a cat’s body fur remains fairly consistent; however, if you notice your cat arching his or her back and bristling you can rest assured that your cat is frightened and on the defensive. Your cat may attack at this point.
Meowing
Cats can make over 100 different vocal sounds (dogs can only make 10). These sounds encompasses a variety of meows, purrs, gurgles, and eeps which occur in a variety of tones and octaves and can mean a plethora of things. The more you talk to your cat, the more your cat will talk back and extend his/her ‘vocabulary’. And a good owner will learn over time what his/her cat means by each of his/her vocal sounds. By listening to your cat and talking back, eventually you and your cat can start to ‘talk’ back and forth to each other with understanding. This will help the bond between you and your cat grow and entice your cat to become even more expressive.
Purring
It is still not known why cats purr. Some theories on the origin of purring include 1) the possession of false vocal cords 2) the contraction of laryngeal muscles 3) blood flow that is amplified by the diaphragm. Whatever the cause of purring a cat purrs when he or she is generally happy; although, some cats are known to only purr when they are ill. However, most cat owners will attest to the fact that their cats only purr when the are content or happy.
Growling/Hissing
Growling and or hissing means only one thing – your cat means business and wants you to back off. If your cat growls or hisses at you don’t push the issue or you will be attacked.
Pupils
Cat’s pupils for the most part change with the amount of the light in the room. However, if your cat become very aroused, excited or angered his/her pupils will become greatly enlarged regardless of the amount of light in the room.
Eyes
Your cats eyes can also tell you a lot about what kitty is thinking:
Wide open eyes – your cat is awake and ready to go
Wide open eyes with a little sparkle – your cat is feeling a little mischievous
Half closed eyes – your kitty is relaxed and ready for a cat nap! This can also mean your cat is ill if the eyes are like this on a consistent basis, even when awake.
Closed eyes – your cat is napping, obviously.
Winking/Blinking – A long slow blink means that your cat is content and relaxed.
Other Behaviors
Rolling on his/her back and exposing the belly – your cat is letting you know that he/she totally trusts you as he/she is exposing the most vulnerable part of the body. This doesn’t necessarily mean that your cat wants a belly rub, just that he/she is totally comfortable with you.
Kneading – this stems from ‘milk threading’ that kittens do. Kittens knead their mother’s belly to stimulate milk production. In doing this to you your cat is not only expressing his/her love for you as a mother-figure but also remembering the happy feelings that used to occur when the mother was kneaded.
Snoring – if your cat snores when he/she sleeps he/she is totally relaxed!
Sniffing – cats sniff each other in the wild to say hello and get to know each other. If your cat sniffs your face consider it a greeting and a way of showing that your cat trusts and likes you. Many owners even get down on the floor (face level with their cats) and touch noses when they greet.
Article courtesy of 21cats.org; All Rights Reserved.
My cat is a 3 years old shorthaired multi-colored mix female. I adopted her 2 years ago and we’ll bonded exceptionally well. I am retired a and spend most of my time at home with her. Just two of us. Before I adopted her from a cage-free shelter she was found stray and shortly has a litter of kittens. I got her spayed, very shy in the beginning but very quickly start feel at her loving home. What amazed me is the fact how much love and care for her not only make me feel that she is my little child, make her feel the same way. This transformation didn’t affected her natural instincts, such as hunting and catching a prey, sometimes I saw the body language of a wild cat.
But I never thought that she could become as affectionate, loving, kissing and following me everywhere around the house. When I get sick and stay in bed never left my site. And of course I am talking to her all the time and she understands me well. Now she is talking back to me. I cannot believe it at first, thinking that I hearing meowing and imaging it. But she is talking. I start listenning closer and realize that no plain meow in her talking. She is not use much vocal sounds and each time she does, day after day she do her best of immitation of my words.
Not many I can clearly understand excert few.
Ma-a. First request for attention
Ma-ma. Second request for attention or food.
My ma-ma. When I giving her food.
O, well. When I said that’s enough.
She is something else, beside a beautiful tiger face cat. She is my girl.
thx ssssssssso much!
Tnx for the wonderful tips!!! I better start observing my cat`s actions.
I have a 6 year old male cat. Half linx, half siamese. He is neutered and front declawed. Probably weighs 25 lbs.
He is an “only child”. Sleeps with me, at my side, and won’t leave me unless he’s eating or going potty. Follows me like a dog when I get home from work, and I only work part-time.
Lately he has become a bit territorial when it comes to me and needs to constantly be at my side even when I sit on the couch. The few times that I have not let him lay by me he has become agressive and come at me batting my arm with his paws. No growling, no hissing…just the batting. I get up from the couch and remove myself from the situation.
Is there anything I can do about this?
I have a 2 yr old from a shelter, very cute and loving and gets along well with the 8 yr old. She carries her tail curled at her side almost like a ? and the tip will twitch. It will straighten out when she sits or sleeps. Is this normal? I have never seen this before.
I adopted my Tabitha almost four years ago. She was in a litter and the most striking cat. She was by herself while her brothers and sisters played. So I picked her thinking she was shy and quiet. Boy was I wrong I think she was just waking from a nap that day. Shy now isn’t the word to describe her. She talks to me she plays. At times I think she doesn’t understand she is a cat. Her personality is more dog like. She chases things kills bogs and spiders. I have a 7 year old child and Tabitha has never become violent with her. The only time my cat bites or bats my legs, or even jump at me is when I am slow to feed her. I was told she was over weight but I am seeing her size as normal. I put her on a diet which caused the frustration from her. I have since taken her off the stupid diet and she is ten times happier. The only question I had was answered because of this wonderful site. Why she sniffs my face. I also believe that cats do that to see if you are okay. A way from them to see if you are still breathing. Because it usually happens when the person is relaxed or asleep. After the sniffing the cat sleeps beside you for your warmth and affection. Right now my baby is running around the house because it is fairly early. Once noon hits she will be napping and sun bathing. peace and blessing all my cat lovers.
This article was very helpful. One question I have: is it normal for a cat to moan? My Abyssiniam stretches out on her side and groans, is she just stretching like people do?
Some cats do seem to make moaning noises.
My cat Loki will give me mixed signals. He will meow, chirp, and rub figure 8′s around my legs wanting to be picked up. As soon as I pick him up and cradle him like a baby on his back (this is the only way he will be held) he will shut his eyes, start purring loudly, and giving me headbuts. While this is going on he will sometimes swish his tail like he is mad, but all other signs point to him loving it. Any ideas why? When his tail is swishing he makes no attempt to leave or make any other signs of agitation.
As far as I know, cat tails sometimes give misleading signs . It all sounds good though – sounds like the cat is digging the attention which is great.
I have a cat that is 17 in human years and I think 80 something in cat years. Way to skinny but seems to be perfectly healthy. We used to never see him lay down but one it seems thats a he does. I love to play with him by grabbing yarn and dragging it around jt a circle and he attackes it. It is hilarious.
My name is Brent and I have a cat that is 8 months old.
When my cat walks, his tail is all the way up by his head and it is really weird because other cats do not seem to do that. If anybody knows anything about this please post a comment.
Thank You
My cat Kirby has an oily chin. If I don’t rub it daily, he get crusty blackheads. He will arch his head completely backwards to give me access to his chin, when I scratch his chin with my fingernails, he gives a big sigh. A very human sound.
im ten almost elevin and me and my mom used to breed persians. The mother was a calico ( mixed coloreded ) persian. Exact same personality as the very top post. One time she had a litter of.. I beileve 4 to 5 kittens. Wen they grew a little older I picked one that I loved to death. She is grey black and white with beautiful markings. Wen I went to visit my grand parents, my mom called and told me that she had sold the cat to one of her friends. I was in my gparents room bolling on the floor so she called them and told them to bring the cat back. I got her wen I was 4 or 5 and shes 6. Shes been my best friend ever since. And I love pets to death so she gets ALOT of attention. Shes the sweeetest thing even my mom loves her. Every night I draw and stay up late and she will to. And wen I turn the light off she knows its time to lay down. So she will lay like a human on her back and share a pillow with me. And wen I come in my room with food she goes to the opposite side of the bed. Wen i get done, she comes back. But I play the piano alot and her favorite song Is,twinkle twinkle little star because every time I play it she meows like
” mrouwwwww!!!” And she talks to me alot
I also have a cat, layla, and her and my other cat sara, have been together since sara was born. But wen layla was fixed. She vecame very mean like a child gets wen their parents give them no attention. So I gave her lots and lots of attention and over time she became regular. But wen her and sara were split she became very lovey dovey. Is it possible she is missing me or sara?
yes this is entirely possible.
I brought my cat home when he was only 5 weeks old, and he has done all of the affectionate things above with his tail and rubbing noses with me, kneeds me when hes about to go to sleep. He also trys to suck on my shirt, which I tell him no and then he’ll just rub his chin on me and drool. Does anyone know why he does that? Also when he sees me his tail goes straight up and quivers like they do when they spray but he’s neutered and nothing comes out and sometimes he leaves an odor. Anyone know why that is?