Calming
signals are a natural way for your dog to communicate. They
are used among dogs as well as most other
animal species as a conflict solving method when faced with
unpleasant things such as aggression, stress and fear, or to
prevent these things from happening. Dogs are conflict solvers
as this is necessary for survival. Calming signals are used
to establish trust and security, but most of all, as a way
to communicate and be understood. They are meant to keep order
and to maintain a healthy social structure. Dogs of all breeds,
shapes, sizes and ages use the signals all the time and in
a variety of situations. We must learn to use this non-discriminative
language in order to communicate clearly with our dogs. Using
the signals will help decrease stress among our dogs and will
help us see them in a new light for who they truly are; our
most beloved friends.
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Some
dogs with behavior problems can be helped tremendously
by re-acclimatizing with their lost language.
There is great confusion when dogs use the signals and we,
the humans, don't recognize them and even punish our dogs for
using them because we think they are being bad, stubborn, or
inattentive. By using calming signals with our dogs and recognizing
the signs, we can prevent stressful situations, fear and aggression
in our dogs.
Through the use of calming signals, your dog will become more
social. He will grow more secure and therefore become a happier
dog. He will cope better with a variety of situations and he
will have a better ability to solve conflicts, a very natural
instinct in dogs.
Calming signals will help you train better. When your dog
is tired, stressed or unable to focus, he will let you know.
In addition, the use of calming signals will help you to be
able to calm down a dog who is becoming nervous or stressed.
Because of your use of the signals you may be able to show
other insecure or fearful dogs that you can be trusted. You
can become a better friend to your dog by understanding him
more. Calming signals are wonderful to use in behavior therapy
to help dogs overcome problems. As a matter of fact, it is
critical that they are used if long term success is to be obtained
in behavior therapy.
Dogs may
lose their language through our own fault. When no one in
their surroundings
uses the signals, they lose the ability
to use them. We teach dogs all kinds of commands which in essence,
become their new language. Unknowingly, we punish dogs for
using calming signals. When you are training, for example,
your dog might look away at some point, seemingly ignoring
you, when in fact, he may be trying to calm you and to calm
himself, as you may be making too many demands on him ( ie.
training for too long) . If your dog yawns and turns away from
you when you are tense and giving a command with a loud, angry
tone, such as "HEEL! for god's sake, HEEL!", he is
giving you calming signals, yet you probably punish him for
being stubborn and ignoring you.
So watch your dogs and learn from them!
Here are some easily observable calming signals:
- Looking
away
- Turning
away
- Blinking
eyes
- Licking
nose
- Walking
slowly
- Freezing
- Sitting
down
- Yawning
- Sniffing
the ground
- Peeing
Article courtesy of Dogzoogle
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